Do you understand you have the power to arouse a man’s appetite for a healthy commitment? With these five relationship guidelines, you’ll learn how to build the feeling of “you’re the only woman I want.”
Although a spark is all it takes for a man to ask you out and crave you sexually, he needs more to want to commit to you exclusively. He must feel as though he can’t wait to make you his and can’t bear the idea of you being with someone else.
Wouldn’t it be nice if you could build the impression that he is the one asking you for a commitment rather than getting “the chat” or giving him ultimatums?
You will if you follow these basic steps for a healthy commitment
1. DON’T bring up the topic of “healthy commitment” again and again.
When you’re concerned about the path your relationship is going, it’s impossible not to want to know what he’s thinking.
Trying to speak to him about commitment all the time, on the other hand, is exhausting for him and would only cause him to dig in his heels and withdraw – even if he was on the verge of committing on his own. So, as much as you want to know what he’s thinking, resist the urge to bring up this delicate subject.
2. DO NOT try to convince him.
He feels cornered and exploited the more you attempt to make a case about how perfect you are as a couple. To him, your logic comes across as accusation, and he is unable to express his true feelings. That’s not the kind of vibe you want to send off in a romantic relationship.
A man falls in love when he believes he can make you happy by simply being himself and revealing the most intimate facets of his personality. You make him feel wrong by denying those pieces, and he protects his true feelings – and his heart – from connecting with yours.
3. DO share your good feelings
When you feel good with a man, let him know! By opening up and sharing your feelings, you allow him to connect to you and the positive experience you are sharing. It makes him feel good that he makes you feel good, and he’ll want more of that good stuff.
As you continue to lay a stronger foundation of positive feelings, it’s only natural that he will see you as a necessary and beautiful part of his life – and he’ll want to make sure you stay in it.
4. DO say what you want – with or without him
Instead of trying to convince him to commit, share your dreams and what you want for your future. For example: “I don’t want to put pressure on the relationship. I don’t want to try to convince you, or rush you. It feels good to be with you, but I know I want to have a family someday. What do you think?”
When he sees that you are first and foremost committed to yourself and your dreams, he will feel fired up about you. He will appreciate you as having high value and therefore be triggered to want you all to himself.
5. KEEP ALL OF YOUR Choices OPEN.
Dating helps you to discover what you really want in a partner. You won’t be able to do this if you cut yourself off from other men before you’ve made the commitment you want. You improve your chances of finding a great match by meeting a lot of people. You also aim to prevent any one man from being the core of your universe. Always bear in mind that your first responsibility is to yourself!
As you can see, the trick to making a man want you all to himself is to be the woman who loves him but doesn’t need him. When he knows how fortunate he is to have you, he’ll be inspired to close the deal before anyone else does.